Nobody likes goodbye. It's important to acknowledge that all relationships are meaningful to a degree. When we choose a romantic one, we implicitly say to ourselves, "this person could possibly be someone I spend the rest of my life loving" The most important thing after a breakup is, when life goes on, is to not let it affect our behavior negatively. A weak person will hold his past within himself and make him always sad. Whereas, a strong person will move on towards his future and start a new life.
When we fall in love, we tend to give our all to our partner. So when they hurt or leave us, our body and soul dies. This pain is unexplainable. It feels as if part of you is missing.
Breaking up with somebody causes a chemical reaction mentally that is similar to grief. So really, we are grieving the loss of the person, whom we loved more more than our life.
Breakup hurts, because your other half is no longer with you. And you have to act like that nothing happens. It feels that all of our time, effort put into someone else has been thrown away.
Break up hurts so much, because we as a
human being we mostly love the things that makes us happy and avoid things that makes us sad. So, we are always ready to take happy things like falling in love, gifts, party, kiss etc. When we fall in love, it gives us all the happiness, we never imagine about negative side of it like arguments, restriction etc. Hence, when breakup is taking away all the
joy that the relationship gave we feel
completely broken, and we feel more
emotional than ever. We also take more time to move on because that breakup gives you fear about relationship in general, so even if we think about falling love in again, the memories we had in the past relationship won't let us to. But we should remember that this pain is not permanent and it will take us high in our life. So try to move on. Forget your past and make your future best.
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