Showing posts with label Emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Emotions. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

EASY WAY TO UNDERSTAND BOYS




Boys are ofcourse very difficult to underrstand...like girls...boys show their emotions only with someone close to their heart but share their happiness with everyone....

Although there are guys whose love is only a lust on the girls....there are many guys who love their girl as their life...

Guys are more possesive that they cannot tolerate their girl being close to some other guy..because they want more importance and attention from his girl..than that of any other guy...

Guys like to spend more time with their friends...if their love or any relationship hinders that they feel irritated

Boys though like to talk to talkative girls..they always want to talk to reserved girls and they want to show the  world that even such girls talk with them....Guys avoid taking help...unless they feel that they cannot do it by themselves...

Guys love their girlfriends even if they don't say it often...guys are not always vocal about their feelings..

Guys as lovers,friends or brothers etc...care silently but not showy..they show their feelings whenever necessary but not for the sake of showing...

If a girl understand a guy and behave with him in that way..she will be the girl top in his priority list...boys like when someone understand them..in every aspect...

As we all know that breakup occur mostly due to misunderstanding..understanding each other in every situation is basic stone for love...

Guys are very easy to understand....if one get closer to them they will be very open with you and share everything....but there are also guys who flirt in the name of  friendship...who deceive in the name of love and who cheat in the name of husband...so be careful with themmm...

Monday, November 23, 2015

Best friends can never live without each other...




My friends, my idots who were with me..in my happiness and sadness..and always show me beauty of friendship....only thing they showed me is the happiness....happiness in everything....even in sadness...

All the problems were found so easy to me...when i was with them...i found everthing beautiful...i used to laugh with out any reason.....we used to laugh in alltogether...for  the reason known only by us...we used to face everyone's problem as our own problem...

I will not say my friends are ultimate..and no one can stand before them....i can only say that they are  ultimate in making me happy....and ultimate in sharing my good and bad...ultimate in doing all the crazy things with me....

Only sad thing is they did not teach me...how to be happy....and with whom to share..and with whom to fight..in their absence..my friends forgot to teach me how to do craziest things alone....

Love may make life beautiful..but only friendship has the power of making love beautiful...Any love that starts with friendship is mostly a successfull love...because their friendship from years matter more to them...than their love..

There a many words to describe one as your loved one..but there are no qualifications and no expectations from one who comes in to our life as our friend..

some times we share everything with friend..even the things we hesitate to share with our loved ones...the only reason for this is we trust that whatever we say and however we behave...friends will always be with us..

So friends please do not ignore or hurt your loving friends....everyfriend add value to your life....miss u all my friends....






Friday, November 20, 2015

Why do breakups become like a life or death situation sometimes?

In a breakup we usually lose someone we care deeply about and someone who's been our friend for a very long time. We naturally grow attached to them and over time change our routines to match theirs. A breakup means another change, but sometimes a very sudden and unexpected one, which makes us feel that our world as we know it has come to
an end.

When I went through my last breakup, I didn't know what to do because she was so important to me that I literally felt as though I could not continue without her. Obviously I'm still here and did not die, but the emotions become very real
and painful very quickly.

It's when you give all of you to the
relationship that makes you think you're whole world revolve around it. That's why when you experience a breakup, your created world collapses with it. You ask your self if you want to live, and build a new world again or not, just end it and be succumbed by emotions.

Breakups are hard to get through, when you fall in love that person is your entire world, there someone your never forget. Just remember all the good times you had together.

I had gone through the same and its because the person you love become your life but you never know about the life or the situation. So after a breakup the only thing you can think is your EX, nothing else and  its like that you
cannot live without that person we start
thinking that death is the only solution. But it's not, because even after death we cannot get that person back in our life or we are not sure that how that person will react...?

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Love at first sight is a dangerous thing.

Love at first sight is a dangerous thing :

We are living in the modern world where we rushed to work, fast food. We race from one activity to the next. And we hardly stop to breath.

With such a fast pace, we have become a impatient culture. We want everything to happen right way. We want overnight shipping, instant video streaming. Also we demand the highest speed internet.

Can it also be said we expect love should come as quickly and easily? Do too many of us, who have been born in this fast paced world, think love at first sight is a new norm?

Love at first sight is a very dangerous thing because, we don't have time to evaluate about that person.

1. We don't have time to test character :
When we rush into a relationship, we may not take the time to really get to know the person, especially their inner qualities. If we don't take the time to test another character, we may get into difficult or some serious situations.

2. We neglect a solid foundation of friendship :
When a couple jumps into a relationship based on feelings and physical attraction, that often comes at the detriment of forming a friendship first.

3. We have a false euphoria :
The love at first sight mentality makes us think our relationship is special and different from others. It makes us believe that our love is invincible, and that it will last forever without much effort. Such euphoria ignores the hard work that it takes to make a relationship for the long haul.

4. We get caught up in feelings :
Everyone enjoys the physical rush of the new relationship, and its all too easy to get caught up in those tingling, wonderful emotions and let them dictate our actions instead of operating with sound logic and thinking.

So from this you understand that, love at first sight is a dangerous thing. So think and love.