Why do I always feel useless and unloved after breakup?

Breakups are extremely difficult because they are a time of transition. Though transition can be really good, it is often uncomfortable. When we are in a relationship, we often find our self identity. After experiencing a breakup, we have to learn how to re-adjust life. It's basically not an easy thing. Sometimes, we may feel useless and unloved within ourselves. But once you changed your perspective and learn to love yourself for who you are, and not relationship you are in, the gray cloud lifts.

Breaking up with someone, even if amicably done, can trigger feeling of "unworthiness" because the person whom you loved no longer wants to be your main focus.

Breakups are always hard because it can
never be ended with the words 'I want to
break up', there is always the question of
why? Is it something that you did? Is there something wrong with you? You were once close to someone and it is hard to back away from that closeness.
But it doesn't mean that you are unloved and useless. Should you be struggling to move forward from a break-up, It may help you to think about things more clearly and more rationally about the
break-up, rather than thinking in terms of how the relationship reflects you as a person.

Also, you will may feel that way because you have parted with probably a big part of your life. They most likely have given you a lot to remember and loseing that may be won't have a positive impact on your feelings.

We cant take the time to regain our
self-worth, and establish our worthiness from within! It just takes a bit of time and some healing.

Wishing you all the best! Always.

True Relationship is not about blaming each other, it's about forgiving each other.

When in a relationship, it's not about the labels or becoming official. It's about getting to know about someone well enough to develop genuine feelings for them. It's about being understanding and forgiving when situations are at their worst.
A real man will love only his girl in million ways. She is the world for him, she is the only star in his earth. He will make her happy until his last breath. It's about loving someone, not for what they have to offer but who they are. It's never about blaming your significant other for not treating you like how you want to be treated, it's about how hard they try to keep you happy.
Life is too short. No one else will be permanent in this world. So love truely and forgive quickly.

Life is too short!! Forgive & Forget!!

Life is too short. So, love deeply and forgive people quickly. Try to forget the bad things that happened in your past. There comes a point when you just love someone more than anything, you tend to lose yourself when they avoids you. So, don't love anyone too much. Too much of love will hurt you so much.

The worst part in a relationship is when they find someone better than you, and they start finding reasons for breakup. And poor you, apologize them every time even if it is not your fault. Because you are true to the one who you love.

Nowadays, no one is perfect. If someone wants to leave you for any reason, then we should let them go. There is no use of asking them to stay in your life again. Better forgive the people who hurt you. But don't forget the one, who hurt you.