EASY WAY TO UNDERSTAND BOYS

Boys are ofcourse very difficult to underrstand...like girls...boys show their emotions only with someone close to their heart but share their happiness with everyone....

Although there are guys whose love is only a lust on the girls....there are many guys who love their girl as their life...

Guys are more possesive that they cannot tolerate their girl being close to some other guy..because they want more importance and attention from his girl..than that of any other guy...

Guys like to spend more time with their friends...if their love or any relationship hinders that they feel irritated

Boys though like to talk to talkative girls..they always want to talk to reserved girls and they want to show the  world that even such girls talk with them....Guys avoid taking help...unless they feel that they cannot do it by themselves...

Guys love their girlfriends even if they don't say it often...guys are not always vocal about their feelings..

Guys as lovers,friends or brothers etc...care silently but not showy..they show their feelings whenever necessary but not for the sake of showing...

If a girl understand a guy and behave with him in that way..she will be the girl top in his priority list...boys like when someone understand them..in every aspect...

As we all know that breakup occur mostly due to misunderstanding..understanding each other in every situation is basic stone for love...

Guys are very easy to understand....if one get closer to them they will be very open with you and share everything....but there are also guys who flirt in the name of  friendship...who deceive in the name of love and who cheat in the name of husband...so be careful with themmm...

Why does love and breakup hurt so much?

Nobody likes goodbye. It's important to acknowledge that all relationships are meaningful to a degree. When we choose a romantic one, we implicitly say to ourselves, "this person could possibly be someone I spend the rest of my life loving" The most important thing after a breakup is, when life goes on, is to not let it affect our behavior negatively. A weak person will hold his past within himself and make him always sad. Whereas, a strong person will move on towards his future and start a new life.

When we fall in love, we tend to give our all to our partner. So when they hurt or leave us, our body and soul dies. This pain is unexplainable. It feels as if part of you is missing.

Breaking up with somebody causes a chemical reaction mentally that is similar to grief. So really, we are grieving the loss of the person, whom we loved more more than our life.

Breakup hurts, because your other half is no longer with you. And you have to act like that nothing happens. It feels that all of our time, effort put into someone else has been thrown away.

Break up hurts so much, because we as a
human being we mostly love the things that makes us happy and avoid things that makes us sad. So, we are always ready to take happy things like falling in love, gifts, party, kiss etc. When we fall in love, it gives us all the happiness, we never imagine about negative side of it like arguments, restriction etc. Hence, when breakup is taking away all the
joy that the relationship gave we feel
completely broken, and we feel more
emotional than ever. We also take more time to move on because that breakup gives you fear about relationship in general, so even if we think about falling love in again, the memories we had in the past relationship won't let us to. But we should remember that this pain is not permanent and it will take us high in our life. So try to move on. Forget your past and make your future best.

5 Reasons for Relationship breakup!!

The root cause of breakup of a relationship is the selfishness that erupts in the heart. Here are the most reasons, as to why marriages/relationship breakup:

1. Physical/Mental abuse :
This is one of the major factor which finally bring about breakup in relationship. This is caused by the sadistic attitude of one the partners which was kept covered up before a marriage.

2. Attraction towards another of the opposite gender :
This happens because of one spouse
does not give time enough for his/her partner. Also lack of communication between the couples is also a main reason for breakup. This should be avoided.

3. Cheating and infidelity :
When a spouse begin to get attracted towards an unmarried person or one who is married, intimate relationship between the two ends up in infidelity.

4. Jealousy in relationship :
Jealousy can cause more devastations in a relationship/marriage. A man or woman may feel that he/she is getting less attention from his/her partner. Jealousy in realtionship can trigger a breakup in relationship.

5. Repeated lying :
A spouse or a partner may habitually tell lies to his/her spouse/partner. In such cases the right picture is never clear to the spouse/partner. A constant attitude of lying will break the relationship and hurts badly. Sometimes the arguments go out of control and they shout at each other, throw something at each other, abuse at each other.