CAN LOVE HAPPEN TWICE???

Love is the most beautiful thing that happens in our life....that may be love from anyone...love has the capacity to create war..as wel as  to stop war easily.....

Such true love occurs only once in our life.....life is onething ful  of love...love makes our life...love is not the thing only between guy and a girl.....its the thing that completes our life.....

Our heart is like a child...it wont accept medicine...like wise...our heart will not accept second love..as a child oppose to take medicine....but sometimes...we need to understand that...it cures our body..and gives us better life

If someone leaves us its not that we need to end ourlife...because only one love let you..love from your friends and family members is withu only...its very unfair to kill all other love...for the sake of one love...

People think that leaving their life for their loved one is the true love...".ENDING YOUR LIFE FOR UR LOVED ONE DO NOT SHOW YOUR TRUE LOVE...IT JUST SHOW YOUR COWARDNESS TO WIN OVER LOVE..AND TO LIVE "

So friends if we loose something or someone...its not that every thing is lost....sometimes love just show a path to lead good life...and sometimes it just throws us from its path to a right path which is suitable for us.....

                 

Why is love so unfair?

Love can sometimes be unfair, just like
anything else in life. I had to go through a
multitude of different relationship until I found the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and I learned that love, like any relationship, isn't always 50/50. Sometimes we don't always know exactly what we want. Sometimes we feel like curling up in a ball and shutting out the world, whereas other times we just want to reach out and hug someone. Love is about understanding, and being there for the person you love even if
they're not giving you their whole heart in that very moment. It's part of the human
experience, and it's part of growing up.

We all need love and companion to spend life together. We always look for someone to give our hearts with an expectation that someone will never break our hearts. When our expectations are broken, our lives fall apart. This love is conditional. But real love is unconditional. The truth of life is that we
never know when someone enters in our lives and never go or someone enters in our lives to break our hearts. Those who promise more hurt more. Coincidence decides to whom you meet in life. Your heart and mind decide with whom you want to stay in life. But only destiny decides who gets to stay in your life.
If someone is unfair to you, disrespect you and your feelings, then you don't deserve that person. Just let go. You will get a person you deserve the most. Be open, considerate and move on.

Everybody has different feelings. It is obvious that sometimes our feelings don't match with others. You shouldn't count that as unfair, it is just the way it always happens. Try to find someone who loves you for who you really are, that will make you understand that actually love is fair.

Love can be wonderful, life affirming, and
enriching to all of us, but without the low
points, the high points become meaningless. Don't let the low points skew your view of
love.

Why do breakups become like a life or death situation sometimes?

In a breakup we usually lose someone we care deeply about and someone who's been our friend for a very long time. We naturally grow attached to them and over time change our routines to match theirs. A breakup means another change, but sometimes a very sudden and unexpected one, which makes us feel that our world as we know it has come to
an end.

When I went through my last breakup, I didn't know what to do because she was so important to me that I literally felt as though I could not continue without her. Obviously I'm still here and did not die, but the emotions become very real
and painful very quickly.

It's when you give all of you to the
relationship that makes you think you're whole world revolve around it. That's why when you experience a breakup, your created world collapses with it. You ask your self if you want to live, and build a new world again or not, just end it and be succumbed by emotions.

Breakups are hard to get through, when you fall in love that person is your entire world, there someone your never forget. Just remember all the good times you had together.

I had gone through the same and its because the person you love become your life but you never know about the life or the situation. So after a breakup the only thing you can think is your EX, nothing else and  its like that you
cannot live without that person we start
thinking that death is the only solution. But it's not, because even after death we cannot get that person back in our life or we are not sure that how that person will react...?

What's the best way to stop heartbreak?

Heart break is inevitable, but let yourself feel it and not for too long. Slowly adjust back to your routine. You'll never be able to forget it, but you will be able to heal. You won't feel like this every day for the rest of your life, remember that.

Also, you have to gradually try to move on, even though it sounds corny and cliche there are plenty of fish out in the sea there, so you will find the right guy/girl, no worries! And you have to remember that even though the heartbreaks there now and its hurting a lot now, time will heal it. Plus, you have to
remember the reason why you two broke up in the first place, so just stay positive.

Acknowledge your heartbreak. Feel the
emotions as they come to you and express them, process them. Unfortunately, you can't put it off or distract yourself from it. It must
be faced, addressed, and then you will find your way to healing.

There are tons of things you can do that
might help. Simply just being around people who you love is one of many, friends, family, whoever it might be. Try distracting yourself from the thoughts about that person that may come to mind. And in doing that, make sure
you are doing things that you enjoy and make you happy. Focus on yourself for a bit. Heartbreak takes time but you will get through it, also do not beat yourself up if you feel like you are taking awhile to heal, everyone is different in their healing process.

What are some things you can do to cope with a breakup?

You can try to distract yourself by hanging with friends. You can write down all the reasons why this was meant to happen and maybe its for the best. Maybe try to find someone else to get you mind off of it. Or you can do stuff that's fun to distract you from the sad.

Do these things to forget your past :
1. Find a new hobby what your really
interested in,
2. Hang around with your friends more, i know you probably feel sad about the
breakup and don't want to be around others but friends really do make things feel as if there going to be okay.
3. Don't think about it to much, try stay active all the time to keep your mind from thinking about him/her.
4. Try carry on as normal and focus on the things you love hope this helps.

First, be mindful of the different stages of
grief. Anger, Bargaining, etc. All of these
stages play a vital role in your own progress. If you are feeling a specific emotion or way, go with it and allow yourself to go through grief. Make yourself as comfortable as possible throughout the process and little by
little try to adjust your lifestyle and your
habits according to what works for you.

First and foremost, CRY IT OUT! Let yourself feel. Let yourself be sad, angry, throw a pillow, scream, punch your mattress, do what you have to do until every emotion is out of your system. Once that's taken care of, get a makeover. Find something about your
appearance that you'd like to change, whether it's dying your hair, changing your makeup style, focusing on fitness, what have you, and change it. Not for them, but for yourself. From personal experience, changing my hair makes
me happy. Playing with makeup makes me happy. Exercise can NEVER do you wrong.

Find a new hobby! Learn a new skill, and get into something new! BURY YOURSELF in work.Set a goal for yourself, and push until you get there. Set smaller goals on the way to the big goal. If it's financially feasible, TRAVEL! Go somewhere else for a little bit! Pet an animal, like a dog or a cat. It can be a random dog on the street (assuming it's friendly and is okay being pet by strangers), a friend's dog or cat, anything. It'll soothe you. Dogs are such happy creatures it's contagious. Watch a horrible, yet funny film show or movie. Allow yourself to laugh. Before you know it, you'll be over it.

Will these feelings last forever?

No feelings last forever, whether we are
talking about negative or positive "feelings". These "feelings" can and will change and that is okay and normal. This is true from feelings of sadness and even love. In the case of love as an example, we must choose to accept someone and love them regardless of flaws, the "feelings" of in love might come and go,
but when you choose to love someone, as
long as you are not in an unhealthy scenario of course that might be a close a definition of "true love" as we can muster without incorporating peoples perceptions. If you are feeling something else, perhaps something we assign a negative connotation to take heart that the feeling is not a permanent one, if just that little bit helps than than you are doing great.

Also, the feelings will remain, you will just become adaptable as time passes. It might be possible that they won't last long. The thing is you will be over them, just give them some time.

Everybody is different in the ways they think and feel or can handle a thought or a situation. Finding the "Right" type of help is a good route to take whether it be in the form of therapy, counseling, coping mechanisms, medications or the combination of all.

Feelings come and go, but all feelings are
worth it, whether they are good or bad. Just focus on being in the now and focus on how you feel and staying content with how you feel also.

Sometimes we just need sometime to heal, other times we need to talk to
someone and express our thoughts, and other times we may need to seek professional help.

Things can always get better. Don't lose your hope.

What is the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you!!

First, you must recognize that you're
attachment to another is amplified by the
insecurities you harbor. You must accept this, and then you must forgive yourself. Instead of trying to gain the approval of another, approve of yourself, and practice loving yourself with positive affirmations and positive imagination. Once you fully accept and love yourself, the approval of another will have little to no effect on your peace of mind, and your deepest
desires will attract to you magnetically.

Also, we cannot stop thinking about someone that easily, but time brings the change. Every human is unique and we cannot always expect the same thing from others in return as we do. Accept the reality that, those who doesn't care for you are not really worth for you. You deserve better in all possible ways.
Say this to yourself everyday when you wake up from bed. Good things happen tho those who do good to others, and let you wait patiently till you find someone who cares you so much than you ever do. May god help to those who help themselves in getting out of this pain.

Time is the only way to heal completely. It is impossible to automatically stop caring about someone. However distractions can help. Remember that every second you spend focusing on the person who doesn't care about you is letting them have control over
your thoughts and feelings.

By discovering yourself, when you discover your talents, you have time to focus on you and that is, how you realize you are worth more than that person that makes you stop caring for them and start taking care of yourself.

The best way is to stop focussing on them and focus on you! Take up a class, start a new hobby, reunite with friends you haven't seen in a long time. The more you do for yourself, the more you'll begin to realise what's really important to you.